Find a time when you are
both feeling relaxed and happy with your relationship. Ask her out of
sheer curiosity - “Have you ever felt the need to fake an orgasm
during sex?”
If her answer is no, use
this as an opportunity to openly communicate about your sex life. You
can use this as a starting point to discuss what she likes/dislikes
in bed, what specific things she would like you to do, and so on.
If her answer is yes, then
you will find that having this discussion will also benefit your relationship.
If your partner confides
in you about her missing orgasms, then this discussion is most likely
to cultivate those essential ingredients needed for any healthy relationship
– communication, honesty, and trust. In having this discussion,
your sex life may significantly improve.
As a couple, your focus should
be on what to change in order to achieve orgasm, ignoring the problem
or “faking it” won’t make it disappear.
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